July 21, 2014

The Summer Series - Alexandra Rosas

I first connected with today's guest on Twitter. And I have so enjoyed getting to know her over the past few years. She has been an inspiration, a friend, supporter, soul sister. And so much more. I'm honored to have her here today!

Alexandra Rosas entered the virtual world in 2010. She has quite the resume. Blogger at Good Day Regular People and is a contributor to The Huffington Post and several anthologies. Touring Storyteller with TheMoth and writer for Purple Clover. Featured humor columnist with Funny not Slutty, home of the funniest women on the planet. Editor for the entertainment website Aiming Low. Named BlogHer's Voice of The Year four years running and Babble Top 100 Mom Blogger. Producer of Listen To Your Mother Show/ Milwaukee and essayist on WUWM. But really, mostly home in a seriously cute apron.

On Rejection

Dear Alexandra: Thank you for your submission. We find that your piece "Better Than Your Easter," does not fit our content guidelines at this time..."

It's Monday morning, the day I take all the submissions I have in drafts and prepare them for launch. I sit with my cup of coffee and a few lemon oreos at my side, and I begin sending out my work. With each one, I'm hopeful, but I add a healthy measure of being realistic. Rejection emails have made me that way, and being rejected, though always disappointing, has become something that doesn't sting as much anymore.

The list of the places where I submit my writing grows every month. It's a many-stepped process. First, I study the site to see the type of work they like, I prepare a first draft, second draft... I work on pieces that I feel are eternally relevant and have been known to stay up until 3:00 in the morning when I feel a topic is going to be hot the next day.

People have told me that they couldn't take the number of no's that I get back. I see it this way; if you don't submit, then your work will never be seen. And so I send in my words. I note word length requested, my cover letter is double checked to make sure the editor's name is spelled correctly, I introduce myself so a hint of my personality is seen. Any honors or accolades I've picked up along the way, I mention briefly, as proof that I've done this before.

Rejection is part of submission. I've learned things from watching the work that is published on the sites I shoot for. And I have a checklist on the front page of a notebook that I keep just for writing tips. It's filled with bullet point items that I go through, line by line, checking to be sure that I've got them covered before I take a deep breath and hit send.

You know what they say about the send button, it's when all your editing skills shine. That's why I keep my checklist at hand. I'm sharing my checklist here:

1.) Study the site you want to write for. Learn the style they like and the topics that are most popular there. Go to their SUBMISSIONS PAGE and stick to the guidelines like your life depends on it. Word count is word count and double space is double space. You're no exception.

2.) See if you can get a direct contact or specific name of an editor who would be in charge of your area of interest, and your genre of submission. BE SURE TO SPELL THEIR NAME CORRECTLY. Every last letter.

3.) Always include your name, address, email, blog link, twitter handle, word count, and title. Sounds obvious, but it's easy to focus on your piece and just send that in... with no information on who you are.

After you've done the above, which is the expected, that's when you're ready for:


--Your voice must be present. You have to listen to your work and hear yourself in it. Otherwise, it won't hold any editor's interest. If there's humor, it has to make you laugh. If it's heartbreak, that pain in your chest must be translated. Make your words as clear as a knife ringing against the rim of a glass. Be strong in your style. Now is not a time for what I call "safe writing."

--Details must be alive -- work them in richly, with your senses. I keep a post-it note close by, asking, can I see it? smell it? taste it? hear it? touch it? Bring things to life in the reader's mind so they smell the fish burning in the frying pan as you rush to your child as he teeters out of his high chair.

--Fling your words like they're your last shot to snag that branch and pull yourself out of the raging river rapids.

Now, after you've spilled words like a wild woman who finally gets to talk to someone after a lifetime in the mountains, stop - breathe -- and check for:

A.) Accuracy in punctuation and spelling . (Typos, misspellings, grammar errors -- are never acceptable.)

B.) Organization and logical flow. (Does the order make sense? Can you see how one thought leads to another?)

Lastly, always and always again, read once, twice, thrice, and once more for luck. Then read it aloud at least once before you hit send. Because we all know the magic of hitting send: it's when your typos appear.

Good luck, and I wish you all happy emails that begin, "Thank you for your submission! We're interested in your piece..." It just takes luck and dedication. Thick skin never hurts, either.

P.S. Rejection is just another way of saying, polish it up a little.

I know a thing or two about rejection, that's for sure. And this is great advice! Thank you, Alexandra! Also, may I ask for the recipe for whatever that is you are eating? It looks divine! 

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